What is Betrayal?

We can define betrayal as an action or inaction that goes against a discussed or assumed contract between one and another (individual, collective, or entity). Such a contract can be implicit or explicit.

However, in the case of it being implicit, there is room to claim ignorance and request a pardon. Implicit contracts often stem from widely accepted and established social norms or what one would believe to be common sense. There exists the expectation that, by some age, another would be educated enough to be on the same page and, perhaps unreasonably so, share the same or a similar culture to be in an unspoken agreement.

Because of potential misunderstandings, it is recommended to be explicit whenever possible. Although, indeed, that could have you stating the obvious and speaking as you would to a 5-year-old. Regardless, you’ve done your part in informing. And while forgetfulness could still be claimed, ignorance not so much anymore.

Betrayal, however, carries a heavier weight than merely breaking any contract. It may encompass hurt, disappointment, and grief - as it is tied to matters of great importance, with much at stake, where trust is required and, perhaps reluctantly, given. Sometimes it is to the extent that it is completely unforgivable and/or speaks quite negatively of the character of whom has committed it.