Neglect, Abuse, & Betrayal

How rubbish, atrocious, or abhorrent is your relationship? You may be dealing with one, two, or all three, of these very detestable and detrimental aspects: Neglect, abuse, and/or betrayal.

Now, depending on how many, the degree of them, and other factors, the relationship might be salvageable and could be worth salvaging. But if it is awful enough, not something to fight for, and you have the option, might as well simply leave it and be free. That’s for you to take an honest look into, accurately discern, and ultimately decide.

All of these aspects, normal and normalized as they may be nowadays, are significantly harmful to the relationship and to you. Some people can endure this more than others, but that doesn’t mean you have to. If you need and want a relationship that is void of the hurt, chaos, and insanity that these aspects bring and perpetuate, you should allow yourself to have it. If not just get out of this hell to be better.