Points on Love Languages

There are five languages in the Love Language model. Each is a way to give and receive, as well as interpret love. Whether from others or from yourself. No shame in that! You may require it to be well. There may be an inclination to some more than to others, but this may also vary according to circumstances.

 #1  Words of Affirmation refers to encouraging, reassuring, validating, approving, venerating and other kinds of positive and constructive words directed at the person. It becomes particularly significant when you’re unsure and insecure about yourself, what you’re being or doing, and whether it is fine or not.

 #2  Quality Time refers to time spent in a manner that is comfortable, pleasant, enjoyable, memorable, or even ideal for the person. It becomes particularly significant when you’ve been through harsh, stressful, and overwhelming times.

 #3  Acts of Service refers to actions that serve, especially for the better. They could be chores, errands, work, or any type of assistance that will ease or facilitate matters for the person. It becomes particularly significant when carrying a heavy load or taking on a large project.

 #4  Gift Giving refers to giving in a tangible or concrete form. Anything from small gestures to over-the-top luxury items, depending on what is suitable and shows consideration for the person’s needs and wants. It becomes particularly significant when on a tight budget or past due for a treat.

 #5  Physical Touch refers to physical closeness and sensation (not necessarily sexual or romantic). Hugs, kisses, hand-holding, massages, pressure, and more that is consented and welcomed by the person. It becomes particularly significant when lonely, disconnected, or tense.